It’s been a little while since I’ve had a chance to sit down and chat with you one-on-one, and I’ve missed it!
Over the past few months, I’ve had some incredible interviews with amazing guests, but today, I want to take a moment to share some personal updates and insights that I think many of you might resonate with.
Specifically, I want to talk about something that’s been on my mind a lot lately: change.
Have you ever felt like you’re not quite the same person you were just a few months ago? Maybe you’re sitting there wondering what you truly want for your life or what the future holds. Trust me, you’re not alone in feeling this way. I’ve been on quite a journey myself, and I can’t wait to share it with you.
So grab your favorite drink, get cozy, and let’s dive into this conversation together. I promise it’ll be insightful, relatable, and hopefully, a little comforting as we explore the ups and downs of life, motherhood, and everything in between. Let’s get started!
A Shift in Identity
Over the last six months, I’ve experienced a profound shift in my identity. As many of you know, I’ve been an online creator and entrepreneur for over a decade. I built several successful businesses, and for a long time, that was a huge part of who I was.
However, as I became a mother, my priorities began to change. I felt a strong pull to slow down and focus more on my family, especially my children.
This transition hasn’t been easy. Society often romanticizes the idea of slow living, but the reality is that it can be a mind game.
I’ve gone from a fast-paced lifestyle, where I thrived on productivity and chaos, to a more intentional way of living. I’ve realized that I want to be present for my kids during these formative years, and that means making some sacrifices in my professional life.
Embracing Motherhood
I’ve come to understand that being a stay-at-home mom is not just a role; it’s a calling for me. I don’t want my children in daycare; I want them with me.
My own upbringing, where I was homeschooled by my mom, has shaped my desire to create a nurturing environment for my kids. I want them to feel safe and secure, just as I did.
As I navigate this new chapter, I’ve found joy in the simple moments—like digging for fossils in the yard with my son. These experiences remind me that this is the most important work I can do right now. I’ve learned to prioritize my family over my business ambitions, and it’s been liberating.
Letting Go of the Hustle
In the past, I thrived on the hustle. I loved being a “boss babe” and juggling multiple projects. But as I’ve stepped back, I’ve realized that I don’t want to manage a large business anymore.
I want to create content and engage with my community, but I want to do it on my terms, without the pressure of constant productivity.
This year has been about peeling back the layers of my identity and understanding what truly matters to me. I’ve found peace in having a more open schedule, allowing me to focus on my family and my own well-being. I’ve learned that it’s okay to let go of the hustle and embrace a slower pace of life.
A Change in Our Living Situation
Another significant update is our living situation. In 2021, we purchased 10 acres outside of Nashville with grand plans to build a large home. However, as my family grew, so did my desire for simplicity.
I realized that I didn’t want a big house to manage; I wanted a cozy, manageable space where my kids could thrive.
We’ve decided to sell our land and explore other options. This decision has been freeing. I no longer feel the need to chase after a dream that no longer aligns with my values. Instead, I want to focus on creating a home that fosters togetherness and simplicity.
The Importance of Less
As I reflect on my journey, I’ve come to appreciate the value of living with less. In a world that often equates happiness with material possessions, I’ve found joy in simplicity.
I want to teach my children the importance of valuing experiences over things. I don’t want them to grow up feeling entitled to everything; I want them to understand the beauty of a humble life. Y’all, let’s normalize having less!
This shift in mindset has also influenced my approach to social media and consumerism. I’ve been reevaluating what I share and promote. I no longer want to perpetuate the idea that more is better. Instead, I want to encourage my community to find contentment in what they have.
Trusting the Process
Throughout this journey, I’ve learned to trust the process. I’ve had moments of uncertainty, wondering what the future holds for my family and me. But I’ve also experienced a sense of peace in surrendering to what God has in store for us.
Over the past few months, I’ve really come to realize that sometimes, the doors that close are just as important as the ones that open.
As I step into this new season of life, I’m excited about the possibilities ahead. I want to continue creating content that resonates with you, my community, while also prioritizing my family.
I’m open to whatever comes next, whether that means building a smaller home, living in an RV for a while, or exploring new opportunities.
So friends, thank you for being a part of this journey with me. I hope my updates resonate with you and encourage you to embrace your own changes!
Life is a beautiful, messy adventure, and I’m grateful to have you along for the ride. If you’ve enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube. Let’s continue to navigate this journey together, finding joy in the simple moments and trusting the process!
