It’s our 8th wedding anniversary! To celebrate, we’re discussing the highs and lows of marriage, as well as telling the story of how we got married in a courthouse with borrowed rings and ate cheeseburgers afterward.
After being together for 19 years, we have made plenty of mistakes for you to learn from (although we’d like to think we do some things right)!
Whether you’re dating, newly wed, or have been married for a while, everyone can learn from and laugh along with us in this episode of Trust Issues.
Communicate Openly
Relationships are not always easy, and mistakes are bound to happen. But open communication is KEY to helping couples navigate the ups and downs of marriage. Carry all decisions as a team and always support each other, even when things do not go as planned. By doing so, you can avoid turning around and blaming each other, which can lead to resentment and conflict.
Communicate Openly About Finances
Every couple struggles with their finances at some point, whether it’s due to a lack of money or difficulty in discussing money matters. That’s why it’s so important to have conversations about your beliefs and attitudes towards money, and to seek outside help if necessary. But it’s crucial to overcome these barriers and seek help in order to build a strong financial foundation for the relationship. So start these conversations as soon as possible!
Prioritize Health for A Better Marriage
We are firm believers that neglecting one’s physical, emotional, and mental well-being can have a negative impact on a relationship. When you’re depleted, exhausted, and stressed, you have less to give to their partner! Taking care of yourself (whether that be exercise, setting boundaries, reading, etc.) is not selfish, but rather a necessary step towards being the best partner possible. For us, prioritizing health in our marriage is a non-negotiable that leads to stronger, happier, and more fulfilling partnership.
Practice Gratitude Together
One way to prioritize health in a relationship is by practicing gratitude. Taking time to reflect on the good things in life can help you feel more positive and optimistic, which can lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying relationship. In our experience, when we’re able to appreciate each other and the life we have built together, we are more likely to feel connected and supported! Remember: even on tough days, there is something to be grateful for.
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